I always try to remember this simple rule of parenting: Enjoy the good times when they come and don't be surprised when they disappear. However hard I try, I never can master this simple advice. When the hard times come I find my self in total shock and not knowing what to do.
This morning Calvin would not get out of bed. After being totally frustrated for a short while, I finally had the presence of mind to ask, "Are you nervous to go on the bus?" The answer was yes! . . . . long story short.....
The bus showed up at 6:55. We told the bus driver "sorry, but he's not getting on the bus today!" They were totally understanding. The morning was total chaos and insanity until I left at 8:45 to take Clare to school and then Calvin to his. We made a few stops to pick up food at various locations and eventually made it to school by which time Calvin had turned himself around. We arrived home again at 10:15 having spent about an hour and a half on the road. I felt it was kind of ironic to spend an hour and half on the road since that is how long Calvin's bus ride would have been. I realized two things: 1. I don't really feel that bad about having him on the bus for so long (as long as he's not into trouble). His time is not so precious or so carefully spent that he can't afford a little down time. In fact, I think it is good for him to have some down time. 2. During my busy days when I have errands and kids to drive around, I OFTEN spend hours in the car, driving, waiting and sitting. If I can do it, so can Calvin. It really isn't that big of a deal.
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